Last night at around one in the morning the phone rang. Marcel had been in bed for about 45 minutes and I’d fallen asleep on the sofa watching Cold Case. After being jolted out of a sound sleep by the sound of the phone, my first thought was to grab it before it woke Marcel. My second thought was that it was the ringtone I have set for my mother and sister-in-law so I knew it was one of them. Third thought was that something was wrong.
Probably about the time I actually said hello was when the third thought kicked in. My heart was racing 100 miles an hour and all I could think about was how I was about to have to tell Marcel (who had just had a really bad day) that something was wrong with the family. Turns out that wouldn’t be the case.
His sister was calling to offer him an opportunity to go this morning to see a sporting event with one of his favorite teams. Seriously? Not only that, she wanted me to wake him up and ask him if he wanted to go. I told her that I didn’t think that was a good idea because 1- he doesn’t like to be awakened when he’s sleeping, and 2- he’d had a really bad day. She assured me that he wasn’t going to get mad at me, but insisted that I wake him up and get him to come to the phone.
Against my better judgement, I went in and gently woke him up. I explained what his sister wanted and he said tell her he didn’t want to go. That was that. She did apologize for calling, but it took me about an hour and a half before I could fall asleep again. Middle of the night calls being awakened from a dead sleep shake me up that bad.
This morning he called and asked if she’d lost her mind. Even though her intentions were good, he told her that she’d better never call here after 11 iin the evening anymore unless it was an emergency. Rather than apologizing, both she and Marcel’s mom tried to justify it. If it happens again, I’ll turn the ringer to the phone off, and if any emergencies occur most people know I have my cell phone on all the time. I’m not sure they have the number, and I think I’ll keep it that way.